Simon Lau Life Guidance
Spiritual and Emotional intelligence in Relationship Part II
Many controlling or manipulative relationships last far longer than they should because the person who is being controlled or manipulative is in denial about anything being wrong. You may think your partner is just a bit moody or needy when in fact, that person has slowly taken over every aspect of your life. Here are some signs that you’re in a manipulative or controlling relationship:
Once you realize you’re in a controlling or manipulative relationship, you need to start thinking about how much better your life will be when you’re done with it. This will motivate you to leave and to start making a game plan for getting out. Write these reasons down to firmly plant them in your mind, and to make you see that you need to get out ASAP if you want to start enjoying your life again.