Simon Lau Life Guidance
Spiritual and Emotional Intelligence in Relationship Part IV
Gaining emotional strength may be a long road, and your abuser will likely try to win you back. It’s important to eliminate contact with this individual regardless of how charming or apologetic the actions and words seem to be. Allow yourself the opportunity to heal and pull yourself away from your abuser’s manipulative spell completely.
The abuse that you endured was not your fault, and there is never any justification for abuse, emotional or physical. All people deserve to be treated with dignity and respect. It’s important to let go of feelings of guilt you may be experiencing as a result of ending this relationship, and let your healing continue.
You may feel as if you were abused because you are unattractive, uninteresting or unworthy, but this is not true. You were abused because somebody cruel chose to treat you badly.